Emotionally stunted

I feel as if I have become emotionally stunted in the last few years. I used to love the thought of dating people and finding the right person. After a life chat with one of my friends I realized that even if the perfect person was nearby I would still bail. I need to either go far far away and grow up or have someone shake me out of my comfort zone. My stomach is killing me right now from some ill prepared food, but it could have just as easily been the thoughts of the future that crossed mind.